She writes what she wishes she heard
Some days love feels like sunshine. Some days it feels like stepping on a Lego in the dark. This is a space for truth, tenderness, boundaries, and the occasional giggle when life slips on a banana peel.
Love without respect is just fireworks in a trash can.
Boundaries, communication, dating, long distance, healing, self worth.
You will not be judged here. You will be gently challenged.
When he says he is fine, but his silence screams
January 9, 2026 • 5 minute read
Silence can be rest, or it can be punishment wearing a polite mask. Here is how to tell the difference without losing yourself.
ReadThe moment I stopped begging to be chosen
January 8, 2026 • 4 minute read
I used to audition for love. Now I invite it. If it behaves, it can stay for tea.
ReadGreen flags that look boring, and why that is sexy
January 7, 2026 • 6 minute read
Consistency is not a lack of chemistry. It is chemistry that will not burn your house down.
ReadStart here
New reader? Welcome. Make yourself comfortable. Begin with boundaries, then communication, then self worth. And if you are in a heartbreak season, please drink water like it is your side quest.
How to say no without writing a ten page apology.
Fighting fair, repairing fast, and listening like you mean it.
You are not too much. You are just not for everyone.
About her
She writes like she is talking to her past self. The girl who stayed too long, forgave too fast, and laughed so nobody noticed she was breaking. Now she writes for women who want love that feels safe, not love that feels like a roller coaster with missing screws.
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